Mope Ogunlusi, a relationship expert and marriage mentor, has said Nigerians wed late in light of the fact that finding the correct partner is generally hard for them. Ogunlusi, who has been a counsellor and matchmaker for a long time, uncovered this on Saturday in Osogbo in a meeting with NAN. She additionally credited late relational unions to issues of genotype similarity, budgetary status and parental effect on who a youngster ought to wed.
“A ton of Nigerians are still single and unmarried in spite of achieving the eligible age section since they regularly think that its hard to locate the correct partner.
“The act of searching for a partner with the correct genotype and searching for a monetarily able suitor are making issues for singles in choosing a partner and intermittently killing the sentiment of affection.
“Sometimes, people fall in love just to find out that their genotypes are not compatible and this as a rule leads to scanning all over for another partner, regularly prompting disappointment if a similar contradiction keeps happening.”
According to Ogunlusi, a great deal of Nigerian singles presently have next to zero time to mingle and look for an actual existence partner in view of the budgetary weight they face on everyday schedule.
“The requirement for financial security and addressing every day needs has made a normal way of life for many individuals and discovering time to mingle has turned out to be troublesome in light of the time put resources into scanning for day by day needs,” she said.
Notwithstanding the money related security challenges people face, she said a few women and men are excessively finicky in choosing their accomplices dependent on his or her budgetary position and status.
She said the pattern of searching for rich men or women to wed is making a degenerate cycle that has influenced marriage as a hallowed establishment appointed by God. She included that a few guardians set guidelines for their youngsters on who to wed, which adds to the issue.
“A few parents normally set detail of the sort of man or lady their children can wed as far as facial looks, tribe, ethnicity, educational qualification and finance” she stated, praising, in any case, the endeavors of matchmaking outfits in attempting to help wipe out these issues made by social ills and nature, by making a stage for singles to meet and have their fantasy relational unions worked out.