Sliding into the DMs is no easy feat. But if anything, the best piece of advice we can give you is this: Once you’ve accomplished it, make sure you slide out of them—and into real life.
It is worthy of note that most men across the world are always in the dilemma of what a lady wants to hear and even how to keep the conversation, in this light, bugging questions like, what if I Don’t say the first thing that jumps into my head, Don’t say anything like “Ur gorgeous.” … Stop trying to be cool or cocky. …
Tease. …
Be outgoing and positive. …
Relax if she doesn’t respond. …
Be enthusiastic about getting to know her. …
Use good gramma
According to a social media enthusiast, Adeniyi Ajose Esq. here are some of the Top Tips for Starting Conversations with Girls Online. In order to successful slide into the DM’s, you need a certain level of smoothness. It can definitely be hard to master the art of the DM slide, but once you have?
If you want to slide into someone’s DM and achieve success in there like Banky did in Adesua Etomi or like Chopra and Jones there are rules to follow.
It occurs to me that most people don't understand the art behind sliding into DM's, that's why they get rejected and sometimes come to cry on the TL.
From my recent findings, many guys really suck at this and they are giving us a bad name. Here are some tips to help you.
— Adeniyi (@niggazoid) March 19, 2019
1. Stop sliding into the DM with certain words like " Hey dear", "pretty damsel".it's frankly annoying. If you don't know what to say, a simple "Good Morning, how are you doing today?" will suffice.
Also, please do not abbreviate. No girl wants to see "Xup, hw u doin?".
— Adeniyi (@niggazoid) March 19, 2019
2. Don't go DMing random ladies you haven't flowed with on the TL before.. Most ladies look at your avi if it's recognisable or your handle. If it's foreign to them, they might not reply. It's best to at least banter on the TL once or twice before sliding in
— Adeniyi (@niggazoid) March 19, 2019
this will definitely make her smile a bit which makes it easier to continue with the conversation.
Don't just type Hi or Hello or Hey without following it up with something. They are probably getting 30 of such messages.
Make it catchy and she will click on it
— Adeniyi (@niggazoid) March 19, 2019
this will definitely make her smile a bit which makes it easier to continue with the conversation.
Don't just type Hi or Hello or Hey without following it up with something. They are probably getting 30 of such messages.
Make it catchy and she will click on it
— Adeniyi (@niggazoid) March 19, 2019
4. DON'T ASK FOR PICTURES. It ruins shit. If you want to see more of her in order to make an informed decision about her beauty and physical endowment, say something like " it seems I've seen you on Instagram, what's your Instagram handle?" then go and check pictures. Simple
— Adeniyi (@niggazoid) March 19, 2019
5. Know how to carry a conversation and the appropriate things to say. You can't be saying "baby" "my love" when you just started talking. You also can't be talking dirty except she has given you the vibe either from the TL or there. Know how to read the other party
— Adeniyi (@niggazoid) March 19, 2019
Don't say, "tell me about yourself "
Say, " well, I want to get to know you more but let me tell you a bit about myself though"This way, you have given her a format to follow and the conversation will flow naturally from there.
— Adeniyi (@niggazoid) March 19, 2019
6. Watch when you text to get a good conversation going. Don't text in the afternoon except you see she's active on twitter. People have jobs
If you want to Slide in and get the ball rolling, target after 4pm or in the afternoon (if it appears that she's active at the time)
— Adeniyi (@niggazoid) March 19, 2019
7. The worst time to DM a lady is when her photo blows up. Man! You got to use your sense
Once you see a hot picture with numerous engagements, best believe there are over 100 thirsty guys saying rubbish. Don't DM. It will get lost in the rubble
Wait till the fame dies down
— Adeniyi (@niggazoid) March 19, 2019
8. Have self respect as a Man. You are a Man. Once you text twice and you don't get a reply over a span of 5days, delete that shit and move on like it never happened. You win some, you lose some. Don't go writing "hello" 77 times in someone's DM and end up on @SubDeliveryZone
— Adeniyi (@niggazoid) March 19, 2019
9. DM within your League and social circle. I won't DM some people because I know thEy want money and I don't have money. Respect yourself
You know some want marriage, if you don't want, don't DM. They will assess you and probably never answer
— Adeniyi (@niggazoid) March 19, 2019
Don't be too quick to ask for number. Let it flow naturally
You can also say something like " too bad Twitter doesn't have an audio feature, would really love to hear your voice"
Then ask
THIS IS NOT ON THE FIRST DAY OH
— Adeniyi (@niggazoid) March 19, 2019
Finally, Don't insult a lady because she doesn't want to chat with you
Be a gentleman and take your L in peace. No silly talks about Shiloh or the likes
Also, and I cannot emphasize this enough., DON'T SEND DICK PICTURES. HAVE SOME SELF RESPECT FOR YOURSELF
— Adeniyi (@niggazoid) March 19, 2019
Social media has done strange things to all forms of interaction—particularly flirtation. Never before has such a simultaneously encouraging and dooming laboratory for pickup lines been available to man.
The average guy can get rejected three times before he drags himself out of bed, while those at the top of the romance food chain can slate out a week’s worth of dates during lunch hour.
The problem with the DM slide is that it rarely works, and that results are usually predetermined by your profile’s attractiveness factor. Part of the problem is that DM slides are most often reserved for strangers or distant acquaintances.
What do you think of these rules. Let’s know in the comment section and poll below.
Source: Twitter