I Lost The Love Of My Life Because Of My Tribal Marks – Nigerian Model, Adetutu Opens Up

Nigerian model Adetutu Alabi, is one of the most joyful individuals on earth. For so long, it had been her fantasy to work with American artiste, Rihanna, and it appears her fantasy is near realization. Rihanna at last saw the Nigerian model with noticeable tribal marks as she answered her on Instagram by following her handle.

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Not long after the model uncovered that she might want to work for Rihanna, her tweet rapidly became a web sensation with individuals tagging Rihanna. This clearly worked as the global singing sensation is presently one of her supporters. Alabi took to Instagram to share the uplifting news and communicated high expectations that Rihanna’s company would before long connect with her. She additionally uncovered that harassing because of her tribal marks debilitated her from going for college training.

She said, “I started modelling last year after I came out from my shell or hiding due to my tribal marks. The bullying started in my primary and secondary school days. Due to this, I learnt a skill instead of going to university. I was supposed to study law but I decided not to take the Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination at all because I was scared of being bullied in the university. I believed that if I attended university, I might end up killing myself.

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Only a few understand the pain I have been through….. Did I tell you how badly I was messed up from bullying that I refused to go to university? I have been enduring from primary school to secondary school…… My dad never understood why I failed my GCE's deliberately……. I can't bear it anymore. I am not going to any university!!! I told myself….. Because I knew I might kill myself someday when it gets too much. My daughter was my saving grace…… I have to be a good example for her so I summoned all courage, dusted myself up and hustled. I fought my way to my independence and confidence. You will have to think twice before you bully me now. This is who I am now…… Undeterred and go-getter. Adetutu OJ #undeterred #adetutuoj #aspiringfentymodel #adetutuojtribalmarkschallenge #fentybeauty #fentycorp #tribalmarks #saynotobullying #gogetter #selflove #badgalriri #selfmotivation #dreamscometrue

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“Later, I had to ask my parents why they gave me these tribal marks and they told me it was because of our culture and to showcase my beauty. I didn’t feature in any of my primary school pictures because of my tribal marks and even though I had friends, I was always like a fifth wheel in the group. An embarrassing day for me was when a client told me to always conceal my tribal marks anytime I came to work with her. She eventually told me that she couldn’t work with me.”

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The look I give bullies when they think my scars doesn't make me human or can be better. A lot of people with tribal marks have sent me their pictures and telling me what they have endured….. Is it lost relationships? People not wanting a tribal marks person attend to them in a office environment? Among peers? One thing I keep telling them…. Don't give in to bullying…. Be confident and thrive in what was meant to make you feel sad about yourself. – Adetutu OJ ?Photography: @ohisview @d_cberg MUA: @ladylucylynda Studiocredit: @ultim8official #tribalmarkschallenge #tribalmarks #scarifications #adetutuoj #adetutuojtribalmarkschallenge #beyourself #bebold #selflove #aspiringfentymodel #fentybeauty #badgalriri #scarredbutnotmarred

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Further speaking on the pain her tribal marks had caused her, she said some strangers had told her that she was ugly. She said, “Sometimes when I walk on the road, people would drag me, only to tell me I am ugly but I always ignore them because some people defend me.”

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The model further revealed that her tribal marks ended her relationship with the father of her child because he was ashamed of walking with her in public. She said, “One of the reasons the father of my child absconded was because of my tribal marks. He could not be with me in public and he only made us meet at night; we dated for some months in 2008 and I got pregnant in 2009. I bore a girl for him and she will be nine years old this year.

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“I felt I was the ugliest girl in the world. I got fed up with relationships because men didn’t always want to go out with me during the day; they would prefer to be with me at night. There was a guy I dated for two years and that was the condition of the relationship, so I had to endure. My mum died when I was four years old, so I grew up with a single dad. When I got pregnant, I had to run away from home to a foundation that accommodated me.”

Speaking on why she reached out to Rihanna, she said, “I was motivated to start the campaign when I woke up one day and saw that Rihanna posted a picture with a similar posture I assumed in one of my pictures and I have always been her fan. My goal is to model for her which I hope to achieve one day. I posted the picture and my friends reposted and retweeted it and the campaign began; that was it. I was very excited when she followed me back.”

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